A Real Man Would Have a Gun

"A Real Man Would Have a Gun believes in poetry's ability to salve and save. In it, Stacey Waite walks a tight rope of language in these well-wrought poems that celebrate and question gender as much as they serve to cherish family. And these poems know no bounds. They chat and scream and whisper—and they even dance if you count the Cupid Shuffle. This is a brilliant beauty of a book." - Jericho Brown, author of the Pulitzer Prize–winning The Tradition

"This book isn't only bold, it's tender and broken and more complex than the tired trope of 'queer triumph.' This book is about family and memory and fuckups through the eyes of a poet who understands that sometimes you can't extinguish rage; it just 'turn[s] into / a fire of a different kind.' We all can see ourselves in this book's magnificent glow." - Aaron Smith, author of Stop Lying: Poems

"I will never get over the poems of Stacey Waite—and I don't want to. A Real Man Would Have a Gun is both slow burn and bright flame, lyric compression and narrative expansion, a book that breaks childhood and parenthood, gender and sexuality—embodiment itself—freshly and sharply open." - Julie Marie Wade, author of Skirted